Most women respond to that feeling of “I must have him…NOW!” as the primary criteria for deciding which men are the “right” ones. 

I say “Run – in the opposite direction!”

Most often, when we’re responding to that surge of hormonal response, we’re operating from a very old and deep recognition of the same “type” that gets us in trouble every single time; he’s not really going to offer to us the love, care, and commitment we want.  Instead, we’ll get angst, insecurity, disappointment, and ultimately, failure.  It’s a “no-win” situation.

Instead, choose from your blueprint (the qualities and vision you can trust are right for you).  Stick to it, no matter how strong a tug you feel toward one of “those” men.  You’ll be happier!