So many women walk around with a philosophy that goes something like this:  “Show me that I can trust you, and then I will”, or “Prove to me that men aren’t jerks, and I’ll be happy to change my mind about them”. 

These same women are usually hoping to end up with a great man, if only they could stop encountering the men who keep letting them down, etc.

Moment of truth here: There are great men everywhere…absolutely everywhere.  We just have to have the right “filter” in order to see them.  If our filter is set on “Boy, there are a lot of creeps running around”, then guess what?  You see creeps (and attract them). 

My suggestion to you is this: work on changing your filter.  Make yourself listen for, see, and attract situations and stories about great men.  You’ll find that your filter will adjust itself, over time. 

What have you got to lose, except a bad attitude?  Let me know how it goes.